Thanks for the question, you two don’t beat around the bush!
Ahhh…. the poop question. I am seriously tempted to answer with a joke but since the first cup of coffee is just now going down, will try to be serious.
Eat healthy. Sounds easy enough right? The rectum is NOT for storing fecal matter as a general rule, however some debris may be left behind. To be safe though, I would recommend an enema about an hour or two before you think you will be playing in you ass. Plain water is fine. I like to stay away from chemical enemas like Fleet, but they work too. If you are going to play a lot and frequently, beware that over using enemas is generally not advised. So the healthy diet things is important. Lots of fiber will help keep you clean and regular. Going to the bathroom prior to play is advised if you cannot do an enema.
Lastly, you two discuss the fact that anal play is going to be more messy than vaginal play, butt if you are good with intercourse while she is on her period, then you most likely are past that issue already. While I am not a fan of scat play, my fiance and I have learned to accept that having a towel underneath us is pretty much the norm for any anal play times. And gloves make clean up easier. She still loves her bare hands though, and she loves my asshole so I am the lucky one.
So, eat healthy, use enemas, or poop before you play, and EXPECT to get some poop on you, which is the biggest hurdle to overcome, and you should be just fine! Can’t make an omelette without cracking a few eggs! And that is my que to make some breakfast!
Amid all the talk about prostate play online, I have never read much more than “it feels great”, “amazing orgasms”, or some similar succinct synopsis devoid of any rational explanation as to why it is so good. It’s not a magic button either, in case that’s what you were thinking. Before I […]
Great take on prostate play! Thanks to Dick for letting me know and for the great site and blog!
Thanks and it’s easy to explore your own anus and prostate. Start with your fingers, and when you hit your prostate you will feel it trust me. Your cock will jump and throb! How far you go as in depth to do this or as in how long to milk it? A few inches inside your rectum is all it usually takes… maybe 3. And depends on how anally aware and comfortable you are. If you are into it, you can see precum dripping in about 5 minutes of play… certainly can get wild with sensations in 15-20 minutes…. and a significant other who knows what they are doing can drain you dry in 30-45 minutes of delicious pleasure, bordering on torture!
Go as far as you can, as often as you like!
Thanks for the question and no, milking is not necessarily the same as ejaculation. Typically with milking there is no sensation of contraction in rhythm to an orgasm. There is a flow, and you feel it in your urethra, but it is slow and steady, being driving by the milking action on your prostate. So every time you or she runs a finger or toy down the medial line of your prostate, fluid is expressed out your cock. Usually clear and stringy at first, and over time it will thicken, and turn milk white. And it can also include cum like a full ejaculation. I have milked my cock and prostate over an hour with e-stim, and the flow was amazing… both in volume and change of color and consistency
The longer you play with the results you are now getting the more you will see and notice how it may change.
Thanks for the question, and that crossover feeling of needing to pee when first starting out with anal exploration is common. That is the result of direct prostate stimulation, so whatever you are using as a toy is rubbing your prostate. Give yourself time with the experience… if you pee, so what. Play with a towel under you if you are worried about a mess.
And milking your prostate is a process that is easy to learn alone as you will have immediate feedback on what works and what does not.
Work through the pee sensation and you will reach your goal.
Hey Verma1981 ~
Thanks for the message, and keep looking… finding someone who plays like you do is not always easy but worth the effort to search for!