Thanks for the question, and I for one think that if you are in a relationship with someone, then this kind of extremely intimate play should be done face to face initially. You on your back, with your legs spread and she/he in between our legs, with complete access to all your fun parts! Hell, even prop your ass up on a pillow so you are completely open and exposed. Prep with a shower together after you have cleaned yourself out with an enema. Set the mood, candles, music and enough light so you can see, or not if that is a major issue for you.
My fiance and I play this way and then some times, she takes charge, bends me over on my hands and knees and then does what she wants, but we are well aware of each other and enjoy the even greater intimacy that comes with complete and utter abandon and full power exchange. I do the same with her and it is this letting go that gives you both so much more in return!
Thanks for the questions…. and for the most part, vibrators can help but best to find the right spot with your fingers. Toys that work are those with a longer neck, and a bent tip… some with vibrators. They are cheap in plastic. Some anal plugs are good… the c-shaped vibes that are for prostate play are OK for beginners…
Prostates are like g-spots…. sometimes harder to find in some people, but well worth the effort to locate them!
Enjoy the explorations!
This is a hot amateur video of a dominant wife giving her husband a humiliating handjob with added prostate stimulation.
This is NOT a prostate milking!
A proper prostate milking does not involve any form of penile stimulation and does not involve an orgasm.
A prostate milking is just a draining of the prostate and the seminal vesicles of the fluids that builds up there that generate “the pressure” and need for relief men feel after a few days without any release.