Thanks and of course I assume you own a prostate, and the feeling is amazing, so keep enjoying the toy!
Thanks for the question, and since I have now tried three ways of removing my own pubic hair, I can chime in on this subject. Razors are a pain. Simple enough. I have had good success with Veet Hair Removal Cream. But I warn you that if you leave it on longer than 10 minutes it will hurt like hell. Over time I have found that the skin gets tougher and is not as susceptible to the burn, but even on your balls this works. Not so good around your asshole, which leads me to the more recent experience I had of doing my own Brazilian Wax job. Ha ha ha… I can hear those of you out there snickering, but I wanted to give it a try.
Heads up on this… it works great at removing hair, but it would help to be a little loaded if you do this at home, cause its a mess and it hurts like hell - at first! DO NOT use the hot wax on your balls as it also removes the skin. Kid you not, at least the Sally Hansen Kit I got.
Waxing is easy around your pubic mound and even OK down along side you inside groin, but waxing around your asshole is not easy with only two hands. More laughter I am sure! Have your partner get loosened up with you with a few cocktails then tackle this together, for a fun, sticky if not perfect afternoon naked and unafraid!
For longevity, waxing is good but I found the ingrown hairs bothersome once they do come back. Veet is great for every 10-14 days, and while some stubble is left, it is soft and easily rubbed or plucked off.
If you have the intention of being hairless in certain places for a long time, try plucking them out with tweezers. After a year of this, nothing grows back, which is I have found the ultimate and best solution!
Ahhhh…. know how you feel!
Thanks for the question, and while this is a first, I would say use as much water as you can hold, and keep going until the water runs out clear and clean. The average rectum is about 7-8 inches long before the first bend. If you are going to play deep, then cleaning beyond the bend is needed. Typically in the beginning you will not be cleaning into the colon, but if you want to then you need to use your internal rectal muscles and anal muscles to squeeze and hold during the cramps while forcing more water past the bend into the descending colon. I use warm water and about 3-4 water bottles in all - fill and purge, then repeat.
Once your clean, wait several hours to play. This allows your body to readjust and self lubricate. Takes planning but is worth the wait. As for the comfort and or pain, sounds like you are going too big too soon. As they say, “No Pain, No Gain”, but in anal explorations, pain can be bad so you have to be the judge of your discomfort. I can say this though, relaxing before you start is important, push out like you have to go to the bathroom when you want to open up more, and try poppers as an adjunct to safe play - they work by relaxing muscles when you can’t, and can at times help you get past a point that relaxation can’t.
Enjoy the fullness and stretch… that’s part of the joy of this kind of sexual experimentation.
Watching him cum
Thanks for the question, and as a general rule, usually my fiance likes to dress up. That being said, if after making love she wants to take my ass, she will just grab one and put it on, naked and covered in sweat. I like her both ways… but the role play element is heightened when she initiates the play and comes in wearing some sexy outfit and then straps up!
As for me, I like to be naked best, although we have added a couple fun and exotic outfits including leather and ass-less stuff, and she loves me in the white jock with the black lights on, but that’s a whole other story. Regardless of my attire, at some point my cock gets all the attention I crave, and then some. Being naked is completely letting go, exposed and vulnerable.
Hope that answers your question, Enjoy.
Thanks for the followup, and check my just published earlier response. Here is a toy that might be just what you need for deeper prostate milking play. I used one early on and it is good for ease and speed for feedback on what works and what is less than ideal.